你一定听过一句话：“没有痛苦，就没有成长。” 心理学研究表明，最强大的个人改变，往往来自人们经历了那种再也不想重复的错误之痛 —— 也就是所谓的“跌到谷底”。因此，无论是对别人，还是对你自己，都不要犹豫让这种经历发生。 虽然明确肯定别人做得好的地方很重要， 但更重要的是指出他们的弱点，并让他们对这些弱点进行反思。 You've heard the expression "no pain no gain." Psychologists have shown that the most powerful personal transformations come from experiencing the pain from mistakes that a person never wants to have again--known as "hitting bottom." So don't be hesitant to give people those experiences or have them yourself. While it is important to be clear to people about what they are doing well, it is even more important to point out their weaknesses and have them reflect on them
Ray DalioFounder, Bridgewater Associates
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你一定听过一句话：“没有痛苦，就没有成长。”
心理学研究表明，最强大的个人改变，往往来自人们经历了那种再也不想重复的错误之痛 —— 也就是所谓的“跌到谷底”。因此，无论是对别人，还是对你自己，都不要犹豫让这种经历发生。
虽然明确肯定别人做得好的地方很重要，
但更重要的是指出他们的弱点，并让他们对这些弱点进行反思。
You've heard the expression "no pain no gain." Psychologists have shown that the most powerful personal transformations come from experiencing the pain from mistakes that a person never wants to have again--known as "hitting bottom." So don't be hesitant to give people those experiences or have them yourself.
While it is important to be clear to people about what they are doing well, it is even more important to point out their weaknesses and have them reflect on them
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